Questions for Chapters 4-6

1. What did your father value about women? What did you learn from him about femininity? How did (does) he treat your mom?
2. Do you see how any of the wounds you received as a little girl shape the way you see yourself as a women now?
3. Are you aware of a mistrust of God deep in your heart? Are you aware of ways that you are trying to control your world?
4. How have your wounds come to you, were they obvious like a betrayal? Or more subtle like years of neglect? What messages were driven home into your heart?
5. Where do you think the hatred for women that we see all over the world comes from? Why is it so diabolical?
6. Do you live with a fear of abandonment? How much of your efforts to "be a good woman" or to make yourself beautiful are fueled by that fear?
7. What in your heart do you really want Jesus to heal, touch and restore?
8. What lies do you believe about yourself?
9. What enemies of your soul would you like Jesus to destory? Self contempt? An addition? A spirit of overwhelmed?